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Kenn Gaither

The Power of Real Friends…

January 22, 2012

Hello everyone, it’s been a while since I have been able to contribute to thisĀ forum. Last year was one of many great changes in my life (professionally) and that directly affected my time and committment to my other loves and interests. My new job comes with a great deal of responsibilities and expectations. I threw [...]

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While Walking Through The City…

June 17, 2011

While waking through the city this afternooon, to enjoy the sunshine and clear my head I came upon a couple on the street having…what can only be described as a “Fatal Attraction” break up. This man and woman were standing perpendicular to each to each other (the man with his arms folded, sunglasses on, against [...]

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On A Rainy Afternoon…

June 12, 2011

This is actually and excerpt from my personal journal, but I had a moment today that made me reflect on this particular incident and I thought I would share with you; I am finally home from the city, after a wonderfully inspiring service at church today and a casual walk through midtown. It was nice [...]

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What Would You Tell Your Teenage Self?

May 11, 2011

This Spring a number of new opportunities have come my way, that are paving the way for a new chapter in my life. One thing that hasn’t changed is my continuing efforts to better myself and my routine of writing in my journal. The past several weeks I have been working with young people (assisting [...]

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Living as my Authentic Self.

April 18, 2011

I realize more and more as I go through my day to day living that coming out and living as my authentic self is an ongoing process. While there are a few times a year when being gay is particularly ‘newsworthy’ (National Coming Out Day, Gay Pride and most notably, as of late, celebrities who [...]

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What Makes You Smile?

March 26, 2011

Living, working and playing in New York City is a “love/hate” relationship for me. The very things that I love about the city (the people, the skyscrapers, the extensive mass transit system), can often times be the very things that make me daydream of winning the lottery and putting a final posting on my Facebook [...]

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Own Your Crazy!

March 10, 2011

I thought that with all of the recent and ongoing media coverage of certain celebrity tirades, social dysfunction and legal issues it was time to revisit my personal motto…”Own Your Crazy”. I am even thinking of making a series or a book on the subject, but more on that later. It occurred to me, as [...]

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What Is Successful to You?

February 22, 2011

Today I am having one of those days where I wish that work was a little “less…like work”. I was not enjoying this particular moment in the day. In an effort to keep myself from feeling “less than” or beating myself up over issues that I have no control over I found a productive means [...]

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The Next Shiny New Thing…

February 10, 2011

This composition comes to you in response to a question posed by a young man, Mark. He asked, “Is the ‘new shiny thing syndrome’ (that never ending peering over your shoulder to see if someone better has come into the room) a major detriment to gay relationships? I have heard this question a lot and [...]

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Every snow storm isn’t a blizzard…

February 9, 2011

Today I am sitting at home, The morning after the seventh significant snow storm of this winter In the northeast. I’m just come in from shoveling for walkways, filling the bird feeder and greeting those neighbors, ( That we only seem to see after some major weather event). I come back inside for some hot [...]

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